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Ghanaian woman says Nigerian men are the best in the whole of Africa, gives reasons why

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A Ghanaian lady has taken Micro-Blogging website, Twitter to pour enconium on Nigerian men, saying they are the best men in the whole of Africa. She also admonished Nigerian women for not knowing what they have.
She said Nigerian men are even better than her own countrymen. One of the reasons she gave is that Nigerian men respect the women in their lives and even when they cheat, they are discreet about it so as not to offend their women.
As expected, Nigerian men flooded her mentions after the post was shared to say they agree with her, but Nigerian women do not seem to agree and they said as much on Twitter.
Read their exchanges below ;
I don’t understand why Nigerian ladies complain of their men, it’s beyond me.
Hands down, Nigerian men are the best in Africa. Their mother, sister, wife/girlfriend(s), daughter & even mother in law they treat with maximum respect
Nigerian ladies, respect your men. Before I started moving with Nigerians, I used to think all men are the same, but as I made friends with Nigerians, I noticed all men aren’t. It was very obvious in fact. The may Nigerian men talk and act to ladies is absolutely remarkable.
At first I thought they behave that way just to woo ladies. Turns out I was wrong again. Over the years, I’ve come to notice how 9ja men treat ladies in their life(Mother, Sister, Wife/Girlfriend, daughter) with absolute respect I began to envy.
Maybe all what I see on their movies are true after all. I can’t watch from outside no more, so I started a relationship with a Nigerian, how different things became, it was like magic, saint like behavior. I couldn’t believe my eyes, I was alert cos he may be working an angle. He could be playing games, but again I was wrong. After listening to conversations and gossips, I noticed that for them, it’s a shame for a man to mistreat his lady. A 9ja man will say ” give my woman the same respect you give me” honestly he doesn’t get better
A typical 9ja man makes his lady presentable because he believes that how his peer will respect him as a man. Romantic stuff!!, he’ll take care of his house and even if there’s problem inside, outsiders will never notice.
His friends can not tell you nonsense as well cos they respect you the same way they respect their friend. It’s also difficult not to get carried away with “our wife” or “first lady” title you are automatically given to you by his friends.
I had a friend that worked at a pub, she stared dating a Nigeria, one day she rushed to me and said, “it’s this what you’ve been enjoying?” With happiness as her foundation. She has been a victim of household boxing in the past from your regularly Nii, Adjei and Kojo
She made a statement
“Even if they cheat, they do it with respect”
I burst into laughter, she said she caught him texting another girl, he apologized and bought her a gift. Enjoyment paaa . Nii will beat you for searching tru his phone
I remember I final statement that day,
“I can’t date Ghana boys again, my level has changed ”
I also remember one time when I went out with a Ghanaian, he’s phone kept ringing, he gave me his phone and said “ebe my wife dey disturb me like this, tell her say she dey disturb ”
I picked up my phone and made sure I used my braids to flog him while walking away in disgust. I felt bad for his wife cos initially I didn’t know.
Just imagine such disrespect.
Gradually most of my friends now date Nigerians, and their testimony remains the same. My mum personally loves Nigerians she name me after one of her tenants when I was born. Currently she has 3 Nigerian tenants and I do talk with them a lot and I watch them closely
Closely enough to see the difference. My old her dresser came from South Africa and told me her own version of the same story. “9ja men in SA work hard for their family” they are always hustling. But kojo will walk round Accra with his friends and expect his gf to feed him
Hard Work and respect, we like
So 9ja ladies,
if you like don’t take them serious.
I know one thing for sure, if you let your men cross the border, they may never come back cos they’ll be treated like kings elsewhere.
I’m yet to see a Nigerian girl and a Ghana guy relationship, even if there is, it’s rare, because the girls can’t go lower than the standard they are used to. But the 9ja boys always go for the Gh ladies cos we treat them like kings.
Please if you name is Nii or Kojo, mepaakyɛw don’t be angry ok. I’m just playing
Respect to the few real Ghana kings your thread coming soon
Finally, I’m grown-up enough to know my bride price hasn’t been paid. On that note, I’ll enjoy it while it last
Prince Charming only exists in Disneyland

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Five Benefits Of Being Left-handed

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Five Benefits Of Being Left-handed

Happy Left-handed day to the lefties in the house!

No doubt, being left-handed is unique. So let’s look at five benefits of being left-handed.

1. They have higher odds of being a genius

Researchers aren’t sure why lefties have a better chance at being highly intelligent but some experts think that this may be because lefties are forced to use both sides of their brain more often. How difficult!

2. Athletes have a better advantage

This is especially true in sports like boxing, baseball and tennis. Opponents don’t face left-handed competition often but when they do, it can throw them through a loop. Did you know that Manny Pacquiao is one of the great boxers of all time because his southpaw approach is so hard to defend.

3. They can multitask better

This is another area where researchers aren’t quite sure why, but lefties are better at managing multiple tasks. That could also be due to the fact that they use both sides of their brain. I don’t know but that sounds stressful!

4. They’re amazingly creative

Research has shown that lefties are more likely to make the creative arts a career. So, to those left-handed artists, we deeply appreciate you all for making the world a more aesthetical place to inhabit!

5. They even earn more money

They certainly are really productive. The National Bureau of Economic Research shows that left-handed college grads earn 10-15 per cent more money.

Now imagine a world without lefties. A standing ovation for them all, please!

 

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Secrets a man should know if he wants to be romantic

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Secrets a man should know if he wants to be romantic

I normally see guys with stunningly beautiful girls and I ask myself, “what is their secret?” it is obvious, these guys are romantic. Then another question pops up, how do you become romantic? Check out the following, it is where the answer lies:

Up your “vibe game”

You need be this kind of a guy who has a nice tongue, a person who knows what to tell a woman. Through your language, you can make her feel special and as you continue to talk bringing out the princess she is. Balance your speech by telling her what she enjoys to hear, be good and at times be dirty depending on her. Don’t sound like a pervert or like you are desperate, then you will be this romantic guy every girl wants, it is just that simple.

Be fancy

There are these small things that make a huge difference in our lives. It is not a must for you to be rich to get a sweet-scented perfume for your girl. It will not cost you a fortune to take your girl out on a date. These little common things but very “uncommon” to many of us is what that will make you stand out as a romantic guy.

Be fun to have around

Be this guy whom she doesn’t want to let you get to work. Being fun means that you make her smile, she is always happy when you are around and your absence makes her think of when you will be back home. Have you ever noticed that it is men who like putting on “sura ya kazi?” (stone face). This is a turn-off, wear a smile, take it easy and have fun. This is what romantic guys do.

 

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READ: 5 Things To Do Before Getting Married

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Building an amazing life for yourself and making the most of every opportunity presented to you is an excellent way to make sure you are ready to get married.

Being married is a wonderful and fulfilling path for your life, but it’s essential to realize that once you’ve gotten married, your life is not necessarily about your wants and needs anymore. Once you tie the knot, you have to start thinking in terms of “we” instead of “I,” meaning that you may not have the opportunity to do all the things you’ve always dreamed of doing.

Before getting married, make sure you’ve done some things for yourself. Start with these great, exciting adventures like things to do before getting married!

1. Travel
A change of scenery can do wonders in changing your perspective. You don’t have to go to some exotic, faraway locale; hop the state line and see someplace new, if only for a day or two. You’ll come back feeling refreshed and renewed by your new experiences and feeling of freedom.

2. Holiday Tryst
The holiday season is a great time for a bit of a fling, but you’d probably better get this one out of the way before you find your future hubby. An intense and passionate holiday tryst can be a huge confidence booster and give you a taste of the wonder and joy of being single.

3. Live Alone
Before getting married, living alone is an essential part of your personal development. Living by yourself means being able to sing in the shower, walk around in your birthday suit and make decisions that only affect you. Living alone can be a huge step in discovering your true self, so make sure you’ve got a little single time under your belt before getting married.

3. Pick Up a Hobby
If there’s something you’ve always wanted to learn, there’s no better time than before getting married. No matter where your interests lie, you can find some kind of hobby to keep you busy and help you learn a few things. If you like reading, find a book club. If you’re more of a collector, check out numismatics or philately (coin and stamp collecting, respectively).

4. Date, Date, Date
Before getting married, it’s important to know that you’re ready for a serious relationship and willing to make a long-term relationship work. One of the most reliable ways to do that is to date several different people with different interests, personalities and qualities. This will help you be more aware of what you want (and don’t) in your marriage partner.
You might also like 100 Important Questions To Ask Before Marriage

5. Know Yourself
Being married can be an incredible, and incredibly frustrating, experience. Knowing who you are and what you want before getting married is the best way for your marriage to succeed.

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